Date: 2017-08-01 15:31
8775 I don 8767 t like most guys, but I am not interested in most guys and besides perhaps that what makes those few unique individuals that I do connect with all more special. (Great, thought provoking opener that shows a woman 8767 s engaging personality. Myself restless, analytical, and opinionated. I am not offended by a dirty joke and can dish out one of my own. I am independent but far from being a feminist. Sarcasm is a spice of life, so bring it on. (Guys really, really like to hear that). Timeless books and movies that make you wonder for days about whose side you are on put great flavor into many of my evenings. What 8767 s your story? What are you greatest pet-peeves and what makes you weak in your knees from joy and happiness. 8776
I'm a writer, so my profile tends to attract men with a high intellect or a desire to find an emotional match, so they comment on something I'd written primarily. However, the ones that catch a peek at my attractiveness or curvaceousness do mention it in their first message and their ssecond message and their third message and in text messages and, sometimes, on a first date where it's inappropriate and, for lack of a better word, "creepy."
Online dating is where people like me, who fail every last criteria for natural selection (at least as far as human society goes), go to hit on women who are so far out of my league that we're not even on the same plane of existence (think single-celled organisms compared to the Judeo-Christian God), then complain about how I will die alone.
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Now if there was a way you could fix this by making an environment that gave men the upper hand and not women. Maybe it'd be more balanced. But as it is systems where men get the same features as women on dating sites are stupid asymmetric in terms of payback. Women get crazy shallow and men get crazy depressed.
Personally, I was a daily OKCupid user for more than five years and in that time I doubt I got more than 65 responses to messages that I sent. I tried much the same approach as Eric and I was ignored to an even greater degree. In the end, I deleted my account. It was an enormous waste of time. I'm actually a big believer that its quantitative analysis has value, but since I had to depend on some form of positive reaction from an other human being and did not even happen often enough for me to draw any conclusion except that continuing to not have any interaction at all was psychologically damaging.
What about a guy who posts a profile just exactly like another guy on another site? I mean word for word. Flown his own plane over Africa, partied with the president at the Kennedy center etc. Is there someplace men can get profiles? And what about this same guy getting mad because you call him on it?
I dated a Liberal woman and no conflicts arose from our political differences. I find it troubling you wouldn't even want to be friends with someone who would vote for Trump, or even someone who wouldn't be friends with another who voted for Hillary. You sound grossly intolerant of other people's views. You should be open to people with differing views than your own, otherwise you will fall into engaging in groupthink and confirmation bias. In other words, you will not learn much in this world seeking out people who will just agree and affirm your opinions on life. You grow by seeking those out who can show you a different perspective. In my experience, I've found people like you frustrating to say the least.
That's actually a really good point. If you don't like any of the incoming messages or guys who message you, why on Earth don't these women proactively seek out nice guys on these sites and message them first? I can believe most of the guys who proactively message girls first on these sites might be jerks or downright scary, but I highly doubt EVERY guy who exists on the site is such.
On the grade A profile: I 8767 m very confused as to how a woman who is 8766 opinionated 8767 and 8766 independent 8767 can so vehermntly deny she is a feminist. Only an uneducated fool would write that profile that or a desperate man pleasing woman who was to afraid to use the F word when she means it
Your argument that online dating is rough for women was totally unconvincing. Oh how creepy it is for someone to compliment a woman on her looks. How awful! (rolleyes) This woman sounds like a spoiled brat, which I think typifies the online dating female pool. They treat online dating like they are going shopping for a man, and looking for the best deal.
I agree 6555% I think we are also probably very similar in both financial situation and physical height. I never thought that beeing would be a problem when I was in high school then I realised women are obsessed with tall guys.
I am Ms Jones. I messaged MANY men first. I am beautiful, kind and intelligent. I used the dating site in every way possible. It is not accurate to say that all women get tons of fabulous messages and wonderful invitations from countless fabulous men. There are lots of sketchy guys out the there. After 8 years, for my own protection and peace of mind, I felt it was best that I remove my profile. That's how many "super great" guys I connected with. They were all very strange and I am reluctant to try Internet dating ever again. It was a very stressful experience sharing information with perfect strangers from the Internet. My personal dating experiences were not great and one in particular was disturbing.
And no, sorry, if you are claiming to be a nice guy, you probably aren't. And no, there is no such thing as "women"who want bad boys. You're just not attractive to her. Women are willing to overlook character flaws to get the hottest guy they can. Just like men do.
8. Many people know that by timeless books and movies you mean real art. It 8767 s not necessary to list what these books and movies are although it can be useful, especially if the reader recognizes and also likes the same.