Date: 2017-08-01 14:43
Firstly he winked me than I ignored, but he mailed me daily. One day I scolded him because I didn't like him, so he stopped mailing me. But after a one year he mailed me again and my sister was using my account and replied. After that we started chatting and we fixed a meet. And after our date I felt he is so amazing person. And finally we are going to get married. I am happy.
But it's all men's fault--as usual. You goddamn creeps and neckbeards! Couldn't possibly have anything to do with the Man Hatin' Princess mentality that infests the West like a plague of scabies, now could it?
So to say the reason I saw so much rejection was because I focused on women way out of my league is a total insult. It's a hypocrisy too you keep having success being totally selective but advise others to bat lower. It's mindsets like this that keep traditional dating sites as traps for the average joe.
It has become clear to me with the passing of the years that my knowledge and understanding are very limited much to my own consternation. However I will do my best to explain the situation as I see it. My answer will likely seem off topic and possibly confusing. Unfortunately the real issue, as is almost always the case with problems we are facing today, exists far beyond the usual scope of answers proffered.
I've gotten some messages on OkCupid, but usually they are from women that I'm not attracted to - physically - which is sad, because I probably would give them a shot if I had met them in real life.
I also ignore or block creepy messages for which I get a lot. If you're okay looking and you message me about something we're both interested in I will reply. If I replied to every single message, even the ones I wasn't attracted to, I would have to be talking to at least 65 different guys every day. And they would probably continue talking to me for a week at least. That's around 655 different people I would have to talk to by the end of my first week. Almost all of those guys will probably be ones I'm not interested in so why would I bother? It will be a waste of time for both of us.
A lot of times women date guys that might have an edge or they find exhilarating and sexy – there a million reasons - but it is not because he is an a**hole to us!! And it almost NEVER solely because he drives a Porsche!
Men also exchange messages online and all of a sudden it goes dead but women are online still talking with others but not responding to your last message..happens constantly!
You did spend a lot of time on your tex to clarify the situation! I salute you for this effort. I do understand and identify to all of what you said. I am only saddenned that the phenomenon of online dating is a speculative viscious circle where the more men need to date someone, the more selective because submerged women are and therefore the more men need to date someone! = / (I guess men pushed the button first)
Honestly, a football jersey is really not that flattering. If you are wearing a jersey, sitting on the couch, and drinking a beer in your photo, it is actually really sad. If you want to really impress the chicks, go outside and have a friend take a picture of you running with a football or something. At least that shows us you don't spend every waking moment screaming at the TV during football season. Posing with your sports memorabilia does not help you either. Can you say obsession?
I'm 69 going on 75 and the first messages are from guys way older than me at 85 and up to their 55's. Where are the dudes closer to my age ! Its bloody creepy. Seriously why, Even when I dont have a picture.
I know women must have to wade through a lot of crap but the positive messages they get too are still so much more than most guys get. Even if half are from creeps, every message is from someone who finds you attractive and girls get a steady stream of admiration with literally no more required work than a picture. I would love to have people messaging me telling me that I'm attractive, that would be a great feeling and I'd be willing to ignore some nasty messages to get to receive complimentary messages too. Instead I have to work really hard on my profile and my messages to get a single response and I envy the steady compliments and reassurances of attractiveness that women get on online dating.
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I don't believe the issue has to do with literacy per se. Instead I believe the issue lies with the individuals capacity to think for themselves. I mentioned education as I believe a large part of the intended goal is to afford people the ability to receive instruction. As opposed to being able to decide whether or not they should be following the instructions.